CREATE & KNOW YOUR SELF-WORTH VALUE

Knowing your Value is an Emotional subject, and when this question is being asked, people often get bewildered as to how to answer .

It’s easy to Identify when you don’t feel Valued, Respected or Appreciated,
but knowing your value is somewhat different.


But what exactly is knowing your value?
Is it having a positive Self-Esteem?
Is it knowing your worth & being able to identify all of your positive qualities?

TBH . I Ain’t Sure .


In my view, knowing your Value & Self-Worth are Inextricably linked.

Self-Worth is defined as “the Sense of one’s own value or worth as a person

I Reckon that is one part of it,

but the other Aspect is being able to Understand how much of a difference you’ve made in any given Situation with the Contribution you’ve made.


Self-Worth Value #1
POSITIVE SELF-ESTEEM

– You must believe in & Love yourself.
– Self-Esteem is confidence in one’s own worth or abilities.

– You should be comfortable with who you are, Everything that Makes & Represents you.

– You must be Confident in the work you deliver & your Sense of Professionalism.

– You should love & have a great Relationship with people.
And without positive Self-Esteem it’d be way complicated to know your Worth.


Self-Worth Value #2
BEING CLEAR ABOUT YOUR VALUES

– You must be aware about your boundaries.
– You need to be clear about what actually is an acceptable behaviour, how you like to be treated and spoken to , and you must develop the Courage to speak out whenever Required/Necessary.

– You mustn’t need any External Validation to prove your value , Instead, you must have an Internal Compass of what exactly is Right & Wrong.


Self-Worth Value #3
YOU MUST SEE THYSELF AS A PEER

– In any given Situation, knowing your Value means feeling you’re an “EQUIVALENT BEING” with anyone you interact with :
eg: Clients, Bosses, Colleagues, Friends or Family.

– You aren’t a Supplicant ,
Nor you should feel privileged to be with someone or to work in a particular type of Organisation.

– You must have a Personal Sense of Value , Deservedness and Assert thyself as an “EQUIVALENT BEING” in
Personal, Social & Professional Relationships.


SELF-WORTH VALUE IS EVERYTHING


ABHIJEET KHANDARE

© 26/02/2019

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International Mother Tongue Day

MARATHI :

आयुष्यात अनेकदा पडलो, अनेकदा हरलो
पण कुठल्याही या गोष्टींचा

मला काहीही ..खंत नाही .

संपूर्ण विश्वास आहे स्वतः वर
पुन्हा लढेल, पुन्हा उठेल, पुन्हा जिंकील

शांत बसायला मी काय .. साधू-संत नाही .


संतुष्ट आहे सुंदर आयुष्य मिळाल्या बाबत
पण बरेच काही करायचं आहे अजून

कारण जे काही घङवलं ते .. अत्यंत नाही .

यशस्वी होण्याचा पाऊल घेतला आहे पुढे
ही तर सुरुवात आहे माझी.. अंत नाही .


कारण
शांत बसायला मी काय साधू-संत नाही .


TRANSLATION

ENGLISH :

Met downfall & Failed innumerable times in LIFE for Long ,

With Self-confidence & Willpower carrying Along .

Never had a remorse.. just learnt some lessons really Strong .


Trust so powerful Within ,

Again will fight, Again will rise, Again will Win .

Ain’t a fraudulent Saint
To Sit, Watch, Relax & Grin .


Satisfied with abundant blessings received from The Universe .

Yet Seldom are the things I’ve to work on fighting against the Conditions Adverse .


For winning LIFE,
Tackled through many Struggles and Embattlement which for me, now are very Thin .

Facing much hurdles throughout my LIFE isn’t the end,
This Battle is something I’ve just Begin .

Shall rise again and someday I’ll surely gonna Win .

As I ain’t a fraudulent Saint
To just Sit , Watch, Relax & Grin .


– ABHIJEET KHANDARE

©21/02/2019

THE UNIVERSE SUMMONS YOU 😇

The Universe has your 🔙 already .
Believe in the loving Universe and it indirectly supports you.


And as much as you’d love to believe in all these, you don’t really feel that supported..
Many & Tough times,
Financially & Emotionally spinning times.

As in, where the heck is that support when I keenly need it,
Right?


Well, here’s truth about this Unconditional support :

The Universe doesn’t really ‘read‘ whether you want the thing or not,
It doesn’t really listen to your requests, claims or wishes.

Universe just responds to you & and your Vibrations.
And these Vibrations come purely from how you Consciously or Unconsciously choose to feel
also, are driven by your emotions.

When you truly understand this, at a deep cellular level, it is so Liberating.

Because not receiving what you want doesn’t mean you don’t deserve it.
Maybe you aren’t creative , inspired, talented or good enough,
You don’t do enough ,
You aren’t capable,
You ain’t that type of person, etc.


When you don’t receive what you want it’s simply because you’re just asking it with your Words
But not also with your looping Thoughts & Emotions.

Not Consistently & Strongly enough for that vibrations to be picked up
And attract you desire into Physical Reality.


So, Recall them moments when you decide your goal , see it , get Excited about it.
But then Time passes & nothing really happens
So you starting Doubting ,Wondering & Questioning yourself.

You see, from this Energy it is impossible to create what you want.
And not because you don’t ‘do’ the THING,
But because you are not the BEING.


That version of you who just decides and sees it at done
Energitically, Emotionally & Spiritually living already in the reality where it is all done .

A space where the doubts, fears & old stories are passing by just like Shadows

While you consciously choose to Focus your Emotions on what you see as your new truth 😇✌


So, here’s a question you can ask yourself daily:

What’d I be doing today if I had absolute Faith? 🙂


– ABHIJEET KHANDARE

©17/02/2019

Understanding Depth of LOVE (Valentine’s Day❌👎)

Share LOVE 365 days – 24/7

Not just on any Typical Described DAY.

As there’s no such thing called Valentine I believe, One has to celebrate it Today, Tomorrow & EVERYDAY .


If you’re blessed with falling for the right one, LOVE BECOMES MAGICAL .

Unfortunately if you end up falling for the wrong one, LOVE MAY BECOME TRAGICAL .


GENUINE LOVE has no bounds, limits & CONDITION,

No matter whatever be any fcukin SITUATION.


It’s less about Romance but more about RESPECT,

Intact & Matured Relationships follow this thingy understanding with utmost ASPECT & PROSPECT.


Romantic feelings are always in a flux, As they might be Today and not be TOMORROW.

But Respect is durable, Mood, be it Joyful or full of SORROW.


It’s not only about Mutual Faith & UNDERSTANDING,

But also about holding hands, facing Good & Bad circumstances together & firmly STANDING.


It’s about Compassion, Compatibility, Care & also at times Jealousy & HATE,

LOVE isn’t destined already nor does it’s written in our FATE.


Despite taking Situation & Timing into consideration,

TRUE LOVE just HAPPENS .

And when it does,

Indepth Mind, Heart & Soul Brightens and AWAKENS .


LOVE isn’t a Noun, It’s a Verb Something full of ACTION,

With poignant DIRECTION.


LOVE in Relationship is less about Rights and more about RESPONSIBILITIES ,

As beloved one’s don’t seek for temporary happiness so they deny every kinda MATERIALISTIC AMENITIES .


LOVE is a great blend of Caring & Daring .

Caring – It’s less about Knowing the person but caring for him/her.

Daring – To stand up & accept the person completely regardless of their faults & shortcomings, be it Smaller/Bigger one’s in a Relationship.


LOVE is more of like Mesmerising, Colorful, Fragrant filled ROSE 🌹 Accepting the Thorns, that arrives along with it.

Thorns = A Person’s Weaknesses, Failures, Shortcomings & Faults.

LOVE is clearly about Complete Acceptance .

A package deal like a ROSE Beautiful yet filled with Thorns .


Share LOVE 365 days – 24/7 ❤ Not just on Overrated Valentine’s Day …✌


ABHIJEET KHANDARE

© 14/02/2019

Being Well-Organized in LIFE

LIFE is Busy .


It’s Hard to keep everything Organized & Tidy.

And to some extent you don’t wanna have an Organized Life, But moving forward will require far less energy if you remove burden of Excessive baggage & Stress involved .


Everything in your LIFE is energy. If you’re carrying much Physical or Emotional stuff , YOUR PROGRESS WILL BE HAMPERED.

Rare are the people who have Organized their Lives to prioritize almost exclusively important & Deep activities .

(e.g. Learning, Health, Relationships, Travel and Goals)


No one gives a damn about your SUCCESS more than you do✌

If you aren’t a Meticulous Accountant about the important details of your LIFE, then you aren’t responsible enough to have what you say you desire for.


SO YOU BETTER CEASE WHATSOEVER YOU’RE DOING AND GET WELL-ORGANIZED


Getting Organized & conscious of present Circumstances (say, your Environment, Finances, Relationships, Purpose & Time) puts you in position build toward the future you want.


The fastest way to move forward in LIFE is not doing more. It starts with ceasing the behaviour which’s holding you 🔙


say, If you wanna get in Shape.. You’ll make more Progress by stopping your Negative Attitude than starting good one’s. So before you start 💪Working-Out, purge the Junk from your Diet.

Until you stop the damage, you’ll always be taking One Step Lateral Forward and One Backward.


say, Before you Focus on making more MONEY, reduce your spending.

Detach yourself from needing more & become more Content with what you have.

Until you do this, it doesn’t matter how much MONEY you make You’ll always Spend what you have (or maybe more) .


This is matter of Stewardship. Rather than wanting more & more, it’s key to take proper care of what you currently have.

Organize Yourself. Dial it in.

Your LIFE is a Garden. What good is Planting if you don’t prepare the Soil and remove the weeds?


Why do most people stay stuck?

– Because they never ORGANIZE .

They try adding more, or being more Productive or maybe taking a different bizarre approach .


Conclusion :

~ BEFORE YOU HUSTLE

GET WELL-ORGANIZED ~ 🙌


ABHIJEET KHANDARE

© 10/02/2019

Obliterating Negativity

Beautiful things happen when you completely distance yourself from NEGATIVITY 🙌


Science says that it’s Human instinct to lean towards the Bleak .

The Human Brain is more inclined to process Negative Data faster and more thoroughly than Positive one’s .

We vividly remember the faults of our partners more than their good traits and romantic efforts .

Good memories FADE but bad one’s are here to STAY 😓💔


It does not however benefit us when we ruminate and expose ourselves repeatedly to NEGATIVITY .

Them who Focus mainly on the Negative outcomes are bound to have :

– Lower Self-Esteem

– Lower Self-Satisfaction

And

– Higher Instances of Psychological Trauma 😥


Repeated Negative Thinking clouds our perceptions of ourselves and the World at large.

Consequently, it destroys our Self-Esteem as Negative Self-Talk takes over Reality ,

When this happens, we tend to be more aggressive both Verbally & Physically toward others 😑

Low Self-Esteem comes in many “faces” but effects are similar :

Bad Relationships

Low performance & High levels of Stress

Loneliness & Anxiety
which could lead to Substance Abuse and Depression .


Suffice to say , Negativity is addictive but ultimately dangerous in every aspect of LIFE .


Not taking ourselves too seriously puts things into perspectives & allows us to see the other side of NEGATIVITY ,

while this may be Undeniably harder for ‘some’ but it’s totally worth it .


Create Positive Aura, Vibe and Circle around

Stay Optimistic

Be Happy 😇✌


– ABHIJEET KHANDARE

©07/02/2019

When Soul Hearts Body ❤😇

Love letter from

the Soul to the Body :


Trapped in this room ;

I Slip, Drown, Freeze .


You’re the fortunate one chosen for the Sadism ;

You Run, Swim, Fly .


Hydrogen Cyanide floats-in this box ;

I Smell, Inhale, SURVIVE .


You’re the Golden Bird, Fated to be the One ;

You Stand, Rise, Soar .


The Vents admit Oxygen ;

I Feel, Breathe, Choke .


You’re the Miracle , Conceived by GODS themselves ;

You Compete, Cry, Perish .


You let me go ;

❤ I Set You Free ❤


ABHIJEET KHANDARE

© 04/02/2019 .